How
many times have you said; “there just isn’t enough time in the day?” We have become so busy with school, or our
careers and family, that we couldn’t possibly find time to consider doing anything more than we
already do. All of us have become time
poor. We are slaves to debt, material possessions,
and social placement. We have allowed
what we do for a living to consume who we are and define us.
We are completely missing out on the real experience of why we are alive
in the first place. We are not here just
to exist, but to enjoy life.
Most
people I know work a full time job or are in school full time. We all have family and peer obligations and
every one of us gets trapped in a daily commute of some sort. Our rushed lifestyle becomes a constant chase
of time, and as time goes by it always
leaves us with the familiar feeling that there never will be enough of
it to do all of the things that we think we need to do before we die. How will we ever escape from our daily grind
when there is only twenty-four hours in a day and we are busy for all of them? Where will we ever find the time to be free?
We
choose to cling to certainty and to the things we know. We conform to a time consuming schedule that
robs us of our spirit and passion for living.
We choose to become prisoner to routine, promising ourselves that we
will find the time someday; to travel, escape the daily grind and leave our
cares behind. We make these false
promises to ourselves as if we are dangling carrots in order to lead ourselves
like a horse to the finish line. Where
is this finish line we are rushing towards? Is it death? Is this all there is to life? We forget why we are working so hard and on a
deeper level we mindlessly surrender to the fact that we feel we absolutely
have to keep this pace in order to merely get by. We lose track of how little we actually need
to survive, while we justify the consumption of life on it. We completely overlook the endless
possibilities for travel and adventure, and we miss out on the narcotic feeling
of wanderlust as our spirit for life fades and we race to our death. People drop dead every day never having known
anything more than school, work, marriage and children. They never chose to take the time to feel
freedom from any of those things. I
refuse to leave this world with that regret.
I will not die wondering “what if”.
Henry
David Thoreau wrote: “Most men lead lives
of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them.” We should embrace the song within
us. We need to stop making excuses and
just go. We need to stop waiting for
that perfect moment in time that never seems to arrive. We also have to stop telling ourselves our
time will come when are able to save up enough money. We must give up being a slave to the financial
save and the wait for time to magically appear out of nowhere. These restraints are mystical creatures that
do not exist. It is time for us to face
our fears and realign ourselves to see the importance of our personal freedom. When we choose to take control of our
circumstances; then, and only then will we ever be truly free and give up the
lament for a life we might not see otherwise.
I am not suggesting we quit our jobs or drop out of school, but I am
saying that every one of us should treat our time here on earth as though is it
meant for the enjoyment of living. The
world would be a better place if we all embraced our passion for life and fueled
it with adventure, travel and the things that free us from social normality. At least then, when we check back in to
society and the daily grind, we are able to remember specifically why we are
doing it.
Thoreau, Henry David. Walden. Radford, VA: Wilder Publications, 2008. Print.
Thoreau, Henry David. Walden. Radford, VA: Wilder Publications, 2008. Print.